Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.
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Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.
Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.
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How Social Media Detox Can Prevent A Burnout /
Do you aimlessly scroll through social media apps every morning? Have you been stalking your ex, lately? Perhaps, you’ve closed Instagram and reopened it the very next second because you’re bored… again?
Illustration by: Scott Martin, Burnt Toast Creative
You’re not alone. According to Hammerkopf Consumer Survey, Indians spent more than a whopping five hours a day on social media since lockdown. Besides social media, there also seems to be a significant increase in streaming service membership. There’s a 72% hike in overall internet browsing since March, according to the survey findings. It’s no surprise that this sudden increase in consumption could lead to burning out.
What is a Social Media Burnout?
Owing to the lack of human interaction, people have turned to social media to keep them engaged during the pandemic. This often results in over-consumption of our smartphones or other electronic devices. The emotional fatigue and exhaustion caused due to social media addiction are considered burnout.
Here are a few symptoms of addiction:
1. Using social media, undisturbed, for an extended period.
2. Feeling restless without it.
3. Using social media as a distraction from personal problems.
4. Constant urge to scroll and get updates through different platforms.
5. Keeping you away from what you should be doing. (Eg. work, hobby, studies)
6. Seeking validation through social media platforms.
7. Replacing human interactions with social media.
8. FOMO when you’re not part of it.
If you can relate to this, you should consider a social media detox.
What is a Social Media Detox?
A detox would mean cutting off from social media entirely or regulating your usage. Here are some of the benefits of staying off your devices:
Whole Lotta Time
One of the first things you’ll notice when you begin the detox is that you have a lot of time on your hands. The days almost feel longer without attending to every notification sound. Think about how you can switch up your routine and try new things during this time.
Better Memory
Scientist’s studies at UCSF revealed that distractions and interruptions affect the working memory. Your recollection is slower and the use of electronic devices, that are now portable, may affect one’s cognitive functions.
Achieve your state of flow
Contrary to popular belief, multitasking isn’t the most efficient way to conquer your to-do lists. Dr Meyer, Professor of Psychology, states that humans are good at balancing tasks that use unrelated physical and mental resources, but when the tasks get more challenging, requiring more engagement and creativity, you might want to slow down or you’ll start making errors. Turns out, listening to music, while writing an important email, and replying to your friends on Whatsapp, doesn’t do justice to any of those tasks.
Reconnect
Social media can be used to enhance existing relationships and starting new ones, but when you substitute interactions in real life with that online, you find yourself feeling more lonely. Taking a break can encourage you to connect to others in person and also give you time to be with yourself. Who knows? You might enjoy taking a walk instead.
Better Self esteem
With Instagram and Pinterest’s homepage being filled with happy faces, it’s quite easy to fall into the trap of comparing yourself to others. Be it a fitness influencer you admire, or a fashion blogger, consuming too much positivity and ‘filtered’ content online can be self-sabotaging. Social media has also been an outlet for people who seek validation. Both comparing yourself to others and putting your self-worth in the hands of others can be damaging to your self-esteem.
Get Rid of ‘FOMO’
As much as we don’t want to admit it, most of us are still part of inactive WhatsApp groups or keep checking Instagram stories, hoping to never ‘miss out’ when something happens. When you prepare to detox, you let go of the ‘Fear Of Missing Out. Having control over what and when you consume social media, is a great way to not let the content consume you, instead.
Live in the moment
Bear with me, as cliché as this sounds, cutting away from social media helps you savour the moment. Whether you’re eating something you enjoy, your dog just cuddled up to you, or you’re staring at the big blue sky, try and resist posting about it. Instead, take a deep breath, take at the moment and, truly, experience it. Be aware and present. It is not to say you will learn lesser if you took a second to capture the moment. But, asking yourself ‘why‘ you’re doing it, can be quite insightful. So, maybe for once, we #DontDoItForTheGram?
Illustration by: Scott Martin, Burn Toast Creative
How Do I Detox?
With lockdown forcing us to work from home, it might be hard to completely cut away from all technology. Maybe social media is how you make your living, or your job requires you to be active on slack or email. What then?
Identify how many hours you invest on Twitter, or Instagram, aimlessly scrolling. Here’s how you can find out.
Except using social media for work purposes, cut off or regulate your usage.
If you can’t install the apps, set the usage limit on your apps on your android and ios devices. Switch on only important notifications or limit your time spent to certain hours of the day. Eg. use social media from 6-7 pm every day or strictly no social media on Sundays.
Inform your friends and family. This way, they would only reach out when it’s a necessity and aren’t worried.
Have a plan. Although this isn’t a strict requirement, having a rough idea of what you’re looking forward to doing, will help avoid frustration or restlessness. Eg. reading, taking up a course, painting, taking the time to cook your meals, practising yoga or meditation. This list depends on you!
Find alternative ways to stay informed.
If you’re still struggling to keep your hands away from your phone. Here are some tips that might help:
Leave your phone behind when you step out (or even on your bathroom trips).
Change your wallpaper to a reminder to stay off your phone.
Find substitute devices to your phone - a real alarm clock or stopwatch, books, news apps, etc.
Get a buddy to go on this adventure with you! So, you can keep track and encourage each other.
Stick a post-it reminder on your phone or use the rubber band trick (having a physical obstacle, can help you stop and think)
Conclusion
The journey of your detox depends on you. Don’t forget to remind and reward yourself for doing good. The trick is to not set a time limit or a deadline to get back to ‘normalcy. Do so whenever it feels right. For some that might mean giving up social media a few days of the week and others, a whole new lifestyle where you don’t rely too much on your devices. Whichever you choose, I’m sure, it will leave you feeling refreshed and healthier. Good luck!
Simplifying Sustainable Living in India /
Have you always wanted to make informed lifestyle choices but get too overwhelmed with the amount of information there is to process? Most of us don’t want to cause conscious damage to our environment, but we resort to it because it feels like a sustainable lifestyle is unattainable. How much could you keep track of? If this sounds like you, you may have stumbled upon the right article.
Sustainable living isn’t as complicated as it seems. Indian households have been practising it for generations. Be it the usage of cloth bags, or stainless steel utensils, we’ve always found safer alternatives. Of course, that was until manufacturing plastic became easier and cheaper. Not only has plastic found its way to our supermarkets and homes, but the mountains and ocean as well. While regulations and policies need to be in place for sustainable development, it shouldn’t stop us from doing our bit.
Here are 5 easy ways you can reduce your carbon footprint starting today:
1. Reduce plastic usage
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Although this is a no brainer at this point, you’d be surprised to find out how many of our weekly groceries come packaged in plastic. Take a cloth bag for your grains and look for alternative brands that have eco-friendly packing. Don’t use plastic straws, or buy water bottles. (If you do, use the right disposal method)
Brown Living, is a great portal that curates eco-friendly, plastic-free products in India.
2. Say no to fast fashion
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In a time where every occasion demands a new outfit, it’s hard to convince people that they don’t need 30 pairs of trousers or shoes. Repetition of clothing needs to be normalised. You also don’t need to invest in brands that use cheap, toxic dyes, or support sweatshops to look fashionable. Buy from homegrown, slow fashion brands who are conscious of what goes into their fabric and ensure their employees are paid a fair price for it. Alternatively, if you’re on a budget, the Instagram thrift store saves the day! You find affordable clothing without compromising on fashion or the environment.
Here are a few you can check out:
Thrift India, Panda Picked Store, Mumbai Thrifts, Assortments 2.0, Thrift N Thrive, and Super Vintage to name a few.
3. Conserve energy
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If it’s impossible to install solar panels on your roof, consider reducing unnecessary usage of electricity. We are all guilty of charging our devices overnight or running the a/c when it is avoidable. Switch to lesser energy-consuming appliances and limit your usage. Read more about energy sustainability here.
4. Regulate your meat intake
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You don’t have to be vegan or vegetarian to reduce the harmful impact of the meat industry - which is one of the highest contributors to methane emission. It has been estimated that over 200 million tonnes of CO2 equivalents are released by Indian livestock each year. This results in an energy loss increase in the surface temperature and harms the environment. Try limiting your consumptions few times a week and exploring alternative recipes that are still exciting.
5. Avoid personal transportation
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It’s almost everybody’s dream to own a car. With private (school, college and office buses) and public transportation increasing connectivity, usage of personal vehicles lean towards luxury rather than sheer necessity. If cycling is too extreme for you, settle with carpooling or taking private or public transportation to your destination. You could even consider investing in an electric bike or car.
Where do I begin?
Keeping up with a sustainable lifestyle involves unlearning consumer conditioning. That means, taking the time to change your buying behaviour.
1. Be conscious of what you consume. Take the time to evaluate its necessity, and what goes into making it.
2. Support local markets, brands and restaurants.
3. Find sustainable alternatives. Know that not everything ‘green, ‘eco-friendly’, or ‘non-toxic’ is sustainable. While these are good, to begin with, sustainable products and businesses emphasize not compromising the ability of future generations to meet their needs. The jargon associated with this concept has been used to its marketing advantage and to provide the consumer with superficial satisfaction, rather than doing good. Learn more about these classifications here.
4. If the market fails to provide you with viable options, make your own. Yes, that means you don’t need to buy cloth bags to take to the supermarket. Find a sturdy, old t-shirt, and customise your new shopping bag. This is also a great way to keep kids engaged and cultivate the habit when they’re young.
5. If something’s broken, it can be fixed. Wabi-Sabi - a traditional Japanese aesthetics is a worldview centred on accepting imperfection. Not everything needs to be thrown away and replaced. Be mindful of where you’re disposing purely for the sake of convenience.
6. If you’re visiting home and happen to find spices stored in tiny coffee jars, your parents are already doing it right. When you stop buying products with plastic packaging, you will notice that a lot of them come packed in glass or other high-quality materials. These can be reused as storage containers.
7. I can’t emphasise the need for recycling. Not all of us can afford to buy sustainable alternatives to all our groceries. But if we can regularly recycle the plastic bottles or containers, food and beverage cartons or even our cans and tins, we would be making a significant difference. Always ensure you minimise and segregate your waste responsibly. Here’s a list of organisations that are making recycling easier.
Most importantly, understand that this lifestyle change is a huge step. It needs to be inducted gradually, to you and your family. The progress isn’t linear so don’t be discouraged or be afraid to make mistakes for as long as you learn to make better ones in the future. And remember, every bit helps.
Misconceptions about Mental Illness and how you can help /
With the recent unfortunate loss of a famous Bollywood personality, India is beginning to discuss mental health. Although this is a step in the right direction, everybody seems to have assumed the role of a therapist. Before we jump into the misconceptions, we need to understand what mental health is and why it is important, especially during the lockdown.
CW: Mental illness and mention of self harm and suicide.
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What is mental health?
According to mentalhealth.gov, it is our emotional, psychological and social well-being. It influences our ability to handle stress, relates to others and make choices. The causes of mental health problems could be due to biological factors, life experience such as trauma or abuse, and associated family history.
Importance of mental health awareness
Just like how sound physical health is essential to carry out a daily routine, balanced mental health is also a necessity. It determines our motivation levels, decision making, and problem-solving skills. This, in turn, affects productivity at school/work and even interpersonal relationships. This is not to say anybody with mental illness will not take responsible decisions, or be able to maintain healthy relationships but their judgements might be clouded by the problems faced by them.
Mental health vs mental illness
Mental illness, unlike mental health, is associated with conditions for which there are standard criteria used to diagnose them. You can have good mental health but be living with a mental illness that is being treated successfully. If mental health issues aren’t regulated over an extended period, it could lead to mental illness. It should be noted that not all temporary sadness or frustration is related to mental illness. If the person affected is going through a prolonged period of irritability, sadness, anxiousness, it is always better to seek medical intervention.
Misconceptions about mental illness
“Reach out to me when you need someone”
This was a sentiment shared by many on social media platforms on hearing about the death of Sushant Singh. Firstly, it needs to be understood that people with mental illness are often misunderstood. It is not easy to talk to just anyone, let alone voluntarily approaching strangers about one’s turmoil.
Secondly, even if a person is ready to open up, you may not have the right tools and expertise to help them or simply may not have the emotional capacity to be there for them at the time. This doesn’t make you a terrible friend/family member. Some things are better left to professionals.
“You are overreacting”
Contrary to offering help, dismissing one's problems can do more damage than good. Everyone has a different threshold to conflicts. Negotiating how somebody else is feeling only makes them feel like they’re not being heard or understood. It is important to listen and provide support, for them to feel safe and that their problems are valid.
“Take a walk / Exercise”
There is no denying that exercise has numerous benefits. It releases chemicals like endorphins and serotonin that improves your mood. It can reduce sleep and stress-related issues. It also improves self-confidence, memory and concentration. It is a great way to keep your mind active and stimulated, but there is no scientific proof that exercise alone can cure mental illnesses. Implying one should exercise or ‘sleep it off, could come off as disregarding the underlying issues.
“You / I should’ve been there”
Although the support of friends and family indeed makes the healing process easier for people with mental illness, nobody can be solely responsible for another person’s mental health. It is unfair to play the blame game, especially in extreme cases such as self-harm and suicide.
How can I help?
Educate yourself of the symptoms of different common mental illnesses.
Express your concern and willingness to listen, without judgement.
Let them share however much or little as they are comfortable.
Be mindful of your language when you address issues that concern you. You mustn’t diagnose them.
Politely offer advice or suggestions but don’t force them into making decisions.
Encourage them to talk to a mental health professional and remind them seeking help is okay.
Address any barriers standing in the way of seeking help.
Support them through their progress, which might be slow and imperfect.
Support their healthy lifestyle changes.
Be there for them within your limited capacity.
Tips for good mental health
Get enough sleep.
Eat well.
Stay hydrated.
Get fresh air and sunlight.
Do minimal physical activity - 30 mins walk or basic stretches.
Do mental exercises - playing games, reading books, learning a new skill.
Socialise with people you love.
Recognise and regulate stress-related issues.
Ask for help when you need it.
In today’s day and age, it isn’t enough if we are merely aware of mental health and illnesses. It is our responsibility not to harm anybody intentionally. Everybody’s mental health matters - that includes acquaintances, colleagues and even the people you dislike. Having good intention isn’t enough if our actions speak otherwise.
Mental health is not a trend. Strictly avoid performative activism, giving out a diagnosis or ill-informed advice.
Always choose kindness. Take care of yourself and the ones around you.
*Please note: The aforementioned tips can be practised by any person to maintain good mental health. These, however, do not substitute medical care and attention. If you are battling mental health issues or suicidal thoughts, please contact your local mental health care professional or dial the free suicide helpline number at the earliest.